Skip to main content

April 2024

April 28, 2024

This week was a bit of a blur as we get nights figured out with Desmond. Some nights are better than others but his cute cuddles in the morning always make up for the rough nights. He got his first bath this week and we've been amazed by some of the new kinds of baby clothes you can get these days (e.g. a baby straitjacket that is so much easier than a blanket for swaddling). He also met our neighbors the Carters who have been eagerly asking about him.

Desmond and Dad

McKinsey baby kit

First bath

Modern sleepwear 

Meeting the Carters

The glorious front yard blossoms


Addie had her first Track and Field practice this week as her gymnastics season is coming to an end soon. She is pretty excited about it. She and Greyson had an art showcase at the elementary school and we went and saw their work and learned a little about drawing cartoons too.

Dry Creek Elementary Art Show

Cartooning at Dry Creek

Media time - Disney's Recess

Donuts at the Pioneer Market

Greyson's soccer game - kid sandwich

Greyson and Kelli at the bus exhibit at the Bean

On Saturday we met with Nana and Grandpa and some cousins at the Bean Museum (aka "Dead Animal Zoo" as Trent's kids called it) and it was cute to see Greyson and Kelli walking around hand-in-hand looking at things. Nana and Grandpa came to Greyson's blustery soccer game afterwards followed up with a Desmond squeeze.


We had a stake conference this weekend. The first for our newly organized stake. The kids did pretty well with it for which I was grateful.


April 21, 2024

Bath birth

Getting oxygen

Relaxing time

Sleeping

Ready to go home

Relaxing

What a full week! Desmond Don was born on Monday after Kassie began labor around 8:15 a.m. or so and concluded with the delivery at the birth center in Holladay at 1:35 p.m. Like Greyson, Desmond was born in a tub. And like Addie, he needed some oxygen after he was born. After he got the air he needed we just hung out with him for many hours. We were home by 7:30 p.m. for the ecstatic older siblings to behold and fawn over the new guy. It was an overcast and rainy day. While driving home from the birth we crested the point of the mountain entering Lehi and were greeted by a huge rainbow. It was a beautiful and peaceful experience for everyone, and in Kassie's words, "it was the best birth experience." 

Siblings

More siblings

Grandma

Grandad

Nana

Grandpa

Posing man


Kassie's parents were here helping with the kids and I am now on paternity leave. Other things this week included two soccer games for Greyson, choir practice for Addie, Books and Buddies with Greyson, filling in for Kassie as a volunteer in Greyson's classroom, two swim practices with Hinckley, a date hiking the G with Greyson, and a date dipping in UT Lake and the Saratoga Springs hot springs with Hinckley. Hinckley's friend had a birthday this week and Hinckley had a great idea to make him a cake that is featured in a video game they both like. It was a hit! We got the bikes tuned up and Addie is excited about her bigger new bike, it has gears and taller wheels but she took it on and had a blast. She, Hinckley, and I went for a ride on Sunday by the lake. 

UT Lake date

Hinckley's breakfast in bed

Reading man

Hinckley in the mud date

Greyson G date

G valley view

Getting a Sundae "like Shaggy"

Hinckley with his friend and cake

Books and Buddies


We've had a lot of support, meals, prayers, and kindness from neighbors, friends, and all of you. Thank you! 


April 14. 2024

The week has ended and still no baby. Every day we finish another task or project and say, "ok, NOW the baby can come!" but no luck yet. I built a shelf and hanging rod in the newish closet in the downstairs office room. I've come to realize that while I'm not naturally handy, I can do handy things - it just takes about 3x as long as it should! We had a fun family movie night on Friday and watched "That Darn Cat". Though the kids were bored in some parts of the show, the scene at the drive-in movie theater where many people get whipped cream on their faces was a hit. We laughed so hard we nearly went silent, shaking with tears. It was a great time!

Tree climbers

Soccer boy with friend Luke

Pickleball lessons with Rach

Reading with Mom

Addie lost another tooth this week, this time while at school. She was delighted to get one of the coveted tooth-holding cases that the school gives to kids in such a position. She wrote a cute note to the tooth "fairly" that she included with the tooth to ensure the case wouldn't be taken. She had a lot of fun playing time with friends at the park near our home and was sad to learn that one of her best friends will move this summer to St. George. It reminded me of the tears and heartache of Andrew Clark moving back in 2nd grade. Hard times for sure.

Greyson finally caved to get a haircut, willing to go from Kevin in "Home Alone" back to Freddy from "Scooby Doo". That boy has always been very particular about his hair haha. He had his first soccer game on Saturday and had a blast. One of his good friends is on the team and they ran and skipped and kicked around with lots of joy and gusto. It was fun to see him having such a good time. Hinckley and Addie were very eager to coach him given their extensive combined experience of 3 seasons. I got to volunteer in Greyson's class on Friday and see him in his natural environment. He's a very obedient and collected kid there. No screaming or punching! haha.

Hinckley is really getting into writing now and learning about the joys and perils of collaborating with others. His classmate changed one of his chapters and added the big reveal that isn't supposed to happen till later in the book into the first chapter...and Hinckley missed it till AFTER they sent it to the whole class to review. He made it through that one. We've been watching episodes of Star Trek: The Next Generation together on most Tuesday and Thursday nights and it is something we both look forward to.


It was great to see Rach this week, she schooled me in Pickleball and I had a great time learning from her while getting walloped. We had some beautiful springtime weather and all the blossoms are coming out in full force against the beauty of the snowcapped mountain backdrop. The perfect time for this baby boy to come!


April 7, 2024

We had spring break this week and still no baby news. Kassie led the kids in a variety of staycation activities including swimming, getting bank accounts and haircuts for Addie and Hinckley, lunch at Wendy's, Kung Fu Panda 4 with cousins, lots of cousin playtime, and more. We got the Ninja line back up and the kids have been enjoying that. 

Ninja line

Jump park fun


On Friday night we had a family movie night and watched Goosebumps 2 (Greyson's choice) and we enjoyed having Kassie's parents over for Saturday conference and the Kays and Spencers here on Sunday.

General Conference with Grandma and Grandad

Fort for conference

Marshmallow building - Addie

Greyson/Scooby creation

Hinckley's marshmallow temple construction

Between conference sessions with the Kay boys at the "h" tree

Comments

Popular posts from this blog

Hinckley's Two Month Update

I can't believe it has only been two months since Hinckley joined our family! It feels like a lot longer than that and he is growing so big way too fast! At his two month check-up today, he weighed 13 lb 12 oz and was 26 1/4 inches long. Apparently he is so tall that he is off the medical charts for his age. Hinckley is such a happy, easy-going baby. He smiles, laughs, and coos a lot. Having him in our family is so fun because he helps us realize the joy of everything once again. He smiles at bright colors or new sounds, enjoys kisses and cuddling, and squeals in delight at seeing nature when we take walks. Yesterday at church it was like he had a rubber neck; for about five minutes he just kept turning back and forth to take it all in--the sights, sounds, and smells. Today he had to get three shots at the doctor's office and even that didn't phase him for long. Oh he screamed and his face got redder than I have ever seen it. I held him and fed him afterwards and then ...

TMA 185 3 minute film

The final product of "make me a match" that I labored over exceedingly. I was actually sort of unhappy with it all not because of the performances of anyone but mainly just the story. We had to write all so quickly and the re-write it time after time and then storyboard it and really break it down. In all this rush I didn't realize till I was actually shooting it that I really didn't care much for the story as a whole and thus my motivation suffered greatly. I don't think I need to tell epic dramatic tales to care about them but I do want to have a strong point and also a specific conflict or issue that is approached and resolved. I am starting a screen writing class tomorrow and possibly I will gain some insights as to how to develop good stories. Ones that I care about. I don't know why I feel so interested in telling stories - particularly in that I haven't felt very confident with the stories I have come up with. It is extremely hard for me to come up ...

Dishes

It is that time of day when the house is quiet, the table is half covered in pots, pans, and tuber ware with food scattered across. The car isn’t in the garage and the dog lies sleeping on the blue blanket. The sun lies somewhere back there, behind the cloud over those mountains. It makes some nice gold colors on the rocky face of the mountains outside of the window. I guess it is so nice because at this time of year there is a lot of plants and flowers in the back yard so the gold makes it seem sort of dreamlike. Yeah, I’ll do em I guess. Call it being nice or being bored. Does it matter? Approaching the sink I am nipped by the denting smell. The eggshells, scraps of mango, carrot peel, and chunks of tofu drip in my fingers. Oh yes, the trash is under the sink these days. Drip once, drip twice on the floor. The water in the frying pan trembles, shaking the crusty flakes of burnt egg. Yogurt and peanu...